Good day people of God. As per everybody is shouting this 2019 is my year, make we self gather shout '2019 is our year".
This same 2019, it's like there is a fair share of mental stress out there. A lot of sad and depressed people, a lot of people facing anxiety problems and all of that. As much as we might want to blame it on the authorities probably school management, government, our parents or what have you. One thing we fail to realize is: we are the architect of our own destruction. We throw our success in people's faces, we make someone who isn't a believer of our ideology feel less of themselves for instance a friend was telling me about how he feels sad and depressed because his friends are into yahoo and stuffs , so when they are all gathered talking about their experiences, he has nothing to say and they taunt him about looking gentle, really??? Does that even make any sense? A lot of these guys doing yahoo aren't even there for the money, they are there because they want to feel among. Can we just chill out and stop guilt tripping and blackmailing people emotionally into doing what they won't ordinarily want to do?
A lot of girls out there with double identity, identity A at home and B in school, totally opposite characters, why? Because they want to feel among in school and won't want their sense of style to be mocked whereas at home, they have to wear the clothings their parents get them.
We really need to chill and stop saying things to make people feel less of themselves. If you are into yahoo and you have a friend who isn't doing it, plis dear, leave him be. Let people do things because they want to, those days of peer pressure should be over by now. We should have grown and matured way past that level, we should understand by now people have their lives to live differently. Not everyone will be a slay queen, not everyone is going to use an iPhone, not everyone is going to ride Benz. Heck! Not everyone will be Dangote or Otedola rich but everyone is trying to be comfortable in their own skin and make it their own way at their own pace.
Please, it's 2019 already. Let's remain woke
With love,
Your blogger girl 🌹
Yea,One shuld also knw d kind of friend he or she moves wit,is a friend dat add value,a friend dat inspire u , everything also depends on ur determination,for example i av a friend dat knws aw to d yahoo vry vry well but he has made up is mind nt to involve himself in dat but he mingle wit dem.thanks.
ReplyDeleteSometimes the parent cause most of these actions taken by the young one, simply because they don't respect their children decision/opinion about what & how they feel.
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DeleteExactly! Parents also are part of the problem because they have sent child to school, after university they are already giving signs they want you to start returning the "favors" of them bringing you up and all of that 💔.
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Yea,One shuld also knw d kind of friend he or she moves wit,is a friend dat add value,a friend dat inspire u , everything also depends on ur determination,for example i av a friend dat knws aw to d yahoo vry vry well but he has made up is mind nt to involve himself in dat but he mingle wit dem.thanks.
ReplyDeleteAs much as most people know this is what they want and won't compromise, not everyone is that strong to be able to stand outside differently. Choosing friends should be one very wise decision to be made at every point, you don't just become friends with every Tom, Dick and Harry that cross your path. It has to be strategic.
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